I understand the individuals disdain for the cult and that once awake there's no real reason to play by their rules, but I think it is selfish to not show some consideration for others there who do take it seriously. Why not just stay home instead? you are going to quit anyway right?
Cappy, it's good you are honest about it and i do understand the jolt received once awakened. One of my brothers was an alcoholic (and still is i guess as he has to abstain) so i have seen what it does to people and those around them.